Siapalah yang tak sayang anak kan? Begitulah juga dengan Chef selebriti terkenal Datuk Redzuawan Ismail atau lebih mesra disapa Chef Wan.
Melalui perkongsian coretan hatinya di laman Instagram, Chef Wan mengatakan bahawa anak perempuannya Serina sudah bertemu cinta hati selepas berpisah dengan bekas suami Gavin Edward O’lunaigh pada 1 Ogos 2017.
Mungkin masih terkesan dengan perangai tidak enak bekas menantu dan tidak mahu pisang berbuah dua kali, Chef Wan kali ini benar-benar mahu mengenali hati budi bakal menantunya.
She said ” Papa i have met the right man and i wished to settle down.
We have known each others for almost a year.
If possible i want to do the nikah before Hari Raya puasa!
Can we both meet u Papa?.
So 2 days ago they came.
Naturally as a future father in law there alot of questions that need to answer.
Especially after the terrible experienced with the 1st one and my daughter didnt want to take my advice as i wasnt too keen on his arrogant behaviour.
This one must drill properly mcm police officer buat interrogation la pulak!
…Anyway this time saya tanya lagi.
” Sepanjang satu tahun ini how many time have u seen Rina and got to know her well, dimana jumpa?
Dia kata betul jumpa rapat 2 kali yang lain2 tu thru phone chatting.
Saya jawab..
” What 2 kali boleh jatuh cinta dan kenal hati budi masing2?
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Terkejut dengan perkenalan yang singkat, Chef Wan mahu anaknya juga kenalan lelakinya tidak terburu-buru dalam mengambil keputusan untuk berkahwin.
” Tak bergaul rapat dan mengenal anak saya ini bagus untuk calun isteri u ni ke tidak mcm mana nak kawin?
Kau tahu ke anak aku ini entah rajin atau pemalas ke dapur atau pembersih atau pun pengotor dan mcm2 lagi?
Can she get along with yr parent and family?
Or vice versa juga for us.
Rina jawab
” Ala papa ini apa kita pulak la di cari sebab!
Saya jawab
” U keep quite u are not suppose to be in this room pun while i am asking him this important question”.
Come on i was just giving an example bukan attacking u.
U see u both have gone through both past marriages and i hope u both have learn that important lessons.
I am not here to judge both yr past but to see that in every possible way that u both have known each other well for me to approve this marriage and lepas kan my daughter to u!
Sabar la dahulu jika nak kawin pun and get to know each other shit first!
These days anak muda nak kawin mcm kacang putih.
Lepas tu tak suka bercerai mcm tukar pakaian isteri itu.
….U need time and pls dont rush for this 2nd marriage?
Do me a big favor?
Lagi pun i ask the boy ( he is 35yrs old a year or two older then Serina)
” She has 2 kids…u will inherit that step father position and have u spent enough quality time to really like my grandchildren i asked him?
Dalam masa sama, menurut luahan hati Chef Wan, dia juga risau dengan nasib dua orang cucunya yang mungkin masih belum mengenali calon pilihan hati Serina tersebut.
” U need to consider all this too as u never had children on your own.
I also have my granddaughter to be of concern tu dan mcm2 lagi”.
So spent some quality time with them.
Developed both feelings on both side as a family.
Feel what need to happened dan bukan setakat bawa budak2 tu ke playground sahaja.
We also need to be fair to the kids too.
..Lebih lagi u ni surveillance officer bertugas di Perlis.
Rina di KL ni mcm mana cerita tu.
Anak2 disini.
So many factors need to be consider.
Belajar bersabar u both and take some time to get to know one another.
Jgn ingat gatal nak kawin tapi tak fikir apa yg saya telah nasihat kan tadi.
We all both have our very own weaknesses.
Find that balance and experienced dulu if we would be ideal for one another.
Saya tak nak pisang berbuah duit kali and certainly have to deal with all this drama shit keluarga as i am exhausted having to explain and face the world mcm la saya ini manusia yg baik dan tak berguna.
It simply not fair for me.
Allah sahaja tahu isi hati saya yg sebenarnya.
What i have experienced with Rina marriage in the past was just one huge mistake for a calun menantu yg biadap, kurang ajar, self center dan sombong.
Cukup la sekali.
I just hope history does not repeat itself.
That is why i want them to give abit of time and space to get to know each other pun.
Observing him i must say i feel good about him.
But again i too need to spent sometime to get to know him too.
So lets not rush on the wedding Rina, please listen to your father this time!
Bapa mana yang tidak mahu melihat anak-anaknya bahagia. Tersentuh hati penulis saat membaca luahan hati Chef Wan kerana ia sungguh memperlihatkan betapa beliau sangat menyayangi anak-anak dan cucunya.
Apa pun, moga yang terbaik buat Serina dalam mencari kebahagiaan hidupnya.
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